Thinking of PITA

As it was mentioned I should think of PITA and the kind of role model I am being for her. Let me explain what kind of role model I am being.....

1. I am showing her that a woman doesn't have to sell herself out to a man because she loves him.
2. I am showing her that it is ok to be true to yourself no matter what anyone else thinks.
3. I am showing her it is possible to make it on your own without a man.
4. I am showing her a strong woman who can date but isn't defined by the men she dates.
5. I am showing her how to stand up for herself.
6. I am showing her that it is ok to make wave and do things her own way as long as she takes care of her responsibilities.

To be perfectly honest, I think I am being a damn good role model to PITA. She isn't seeing me give up myself and sacrifice who I am for another person. She is seeing me be independent and strong. Do me a favor, hubs, before you cast stones at me, take a damn hard look in the mirror at yourself and throw the first damn stone at YOU. You have NO RIGHT ever to question how I choose to raise her. When you can stand up and be dad of the year then you can tell me where I am screwing up. Until then, back the hell off of using her to manipulate me to do the shit you want me to do and not the stuff I WANT TO DO!